Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Pregnant Sarah!

I know I haven't gotten to see many of you since the summer and some of you it's been even longer so I decided to put together a quick slide show of pregnant pics to share with you.  I can't wait until I have more interesting BABY pictures to share instead.  At this point, 38 weeks, I'm ready for something a little different, like being able to sleep on my stomach, being allowed to eat and more importantly DRINK what I want, not feeling like I'm waddling everywhere I go, bumping into things constantly with my belly, worrying if the baby is ok or when I'm going to deliver, wondering if I need to buy anything else for the baby or if I'm all set and I'm sure I could go on and on and on...


Monday, October 10, 2011

Out and About!

Loren and I have been trying to take advantage of our last bits of time together before the baby comes by exploring our host city.  We both know that life doesn't end when you start a family, but it seems that life as we know it will be forever altered. 
This last Sunday we went into People's Square Puxi and visited the Shanghai Museum.  They had 3 great exhibits that we throughly enjoyed.  I made a quick video of our day, including our taxi ride home.  Hope you enjoy it!

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Happy Holidays from Lilly, Milo, Sarah and Loren!


Sometimes I look at Loren, the wonderful man who is making my dreams a possibility, and just have to smile.  We're living in Shanghai, China!  I am traveling and living around the world!  Then slowly, the smile fades to a twinkle, I blink my eyes and a familiar dull fog fills my view.  From this dulled perspective I'm reminded that even though my life is pretty amazing, it's also fraught with discomforts and burdensome challenges brought on by the mere fact that we don't have a permanent home; a home that we can really sink into.  For someone like me who loves to travel and explore new countries, it seems strange that I lament not having a permanent home.  It's been something that I've struggled with having grown up moving from country to country, place to place without knowing how to answer the question, "So, where's home?"  Like everyone else, I long for a place to proudly call my home, a place that reflects me, comforts and rejuvenates me but I don't want to give up my nomadic adventures.
We may live in Shanghai for the next two to six years or maybe even for ten.  Either way, there is a time limit on our life here and on our stay in this wonderful apartment.  Somewhere lurking in the back of my mind is the knowledge that one day we'll pack up and ship out.  To where?  We don't know.  Don't get me wrong, this is one of the things we love about our lives, but it does mean we have to continually dismantle and reestablish our whole lives over and over and over again.   Each time we do, things don't easily fit back the way they were.  Like Loren says, "It's like a puzzle.  It is hard to reconstruct the pieces into a different picture." 
"So what?" you may be thinking.  Well, that tiny, irksome and scratchy grain of knowledge lodged in our brains seems to twist and turn every time we want to make any big decisions.  Should we buy that huge piece of furniture that we both love?  Is that painting we like too big to fit in our carry on?  Do we really want to spend money on things we may just be selling or giving away in a few years time? Should we really paint our apartment?  Should we spend the money on lots of plants to beautify our living space?  Can we really adopt and provide a loving safe home for animals when we may just be moving to the next spot in the foreseeable future?  Every question which would take some new couples living in a new home maybe an enjoyable hour of discussion at their favorite and familiar lunch spot is debated and weighed ad nauseam by us to the point that we have to table it for a week or a month or forever.  We have to consider shipping costs and hassles.  Just like some of you, we have to think about bang for our buck on home improvements because eventually we'll have to pay to change everything back to the way it was.  We have to think about flying with animals and the possibility of long quarantines.  Also, what are we going to do with the little guys over our long summer vacations?
This lifestyle is so full of what ifs that it's hard to commit to anything beyond what to stock our fridge with.  At times it feels like we will be cursed to constantly relive our college years, moving from one apartment that we furnish with stuff we don't care about to another place that we know will also have a short shelf life.  It's like even though we are living such full and exciting lives overseas that we love, we are still only living a half life.  That spiky grain of knowledge has been making it near impossible to fully relax into a place and create our home oasis.   



When we arrived in Shanghai, subconsciously, I think we both realized that we didn't want to, or even have to live in fear of that rough nodule of knowledge in our brains anymore.  No matter how long we stay here, this is going to be our home and we shouldn't have to live in it like we're going to pack up any minute.  What a liberating realization!   This is a huge step for our lives as international teachers, one that many others before us have made, but no less monumental because of its commonplace.  We may still be feeling a little wreckless when we do make our big decisions, but we are turning Shanghai into our home and it feels great!   We painted our apartment in colors that we love, we bought a beautiful cabinet that we'll cherish in the years to come, and yes, we adopted 2 wonderful kittens, (Lilly is the white one and Milo is the tabby), that settle us and allow us to walk in our door and relax.  
It feels great to take control of our lives and to embrace the fact that all things are temporary; it's just the state of mind we live in that counts.  We've accepted that there will be new challenges every time we step outside of our, this isn't permanent, don't be too hasty, mindset but that's ok by us.  
 
So everyone, raise your glasses, I've got a toast to make: Here's to making big decisions and to creating a home where ever you may go or be.  May you be able to dissipate the fog that shields your vision from the beauty life is offering you.   I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and also find an untarnished sense of liberation in the new year.  Cheers!

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Shanghai is a wasteland?

I remember reading in the 2008 Lonely Planet that Shanghai is devoid of art and culture.  If I had our guide book now, I'd quote what it said because it did not paint a pretty picture.  So, with this post I will show you how devoid Shanghai is of art and culture.  Especially, how devoid my school and colleagues are of art and culture.  Whoa is me...

 
 Two colleagues performed downtown in a Tango concert.
 I went to a musical instrument expo and explored 6 store rooms full of interesting musical possibilities. I ended up buying a classical guitar for $30 and a saxophone for Loren for little over $100. 
  
Loren and I went to a jazz festival in the park to watch our Middle School jazz band perform and then stayed on to watch some of the other impressive acts while we nibbled on tasty food and enjoyed the company of long lost friends.   

I went to the Shanghai Biennale at the Shanghai Art Museum with my co-worker the week after he had an opening for his own show in which he displayed many painting and photographs.


 I've been quite busy lately because at the beginning of the year I volunteered to help design a set for the Middle School Musical.  Little did I know what I was getting into when I said yes.  I put in hours and hours of time for the project but am very happy I did. 

 
Here are the humble beginnings of our set.   

Here it is built!  Now it's just waiting for me and 2 other people to put on the finishing touches such as wall paper, cobwebs, painted shutters, fabric draping, a fog machine, glowing red lights, a sparkling sign among other things. 

Yes, that is a slide.  Yes it was used in the show.  Notice the box like structure to the left, it is on wheels and it rotates.  The underneath is full of hidden doors for the actors to pop out of and sneak into.    

The middle school band accompanied the actors in the pit.  



If the writer for the 2008 Lonely Planet would have talked to any of my colleagues, they may have written a different story about the arts and culture scene in Shanghai.  It may be harder to see the fine arts here; they may be hiding in under advertised establishments, or may not be the center of hype for this city, but I'm happy to say that I've found the arts here and they are not hiding far beneath the surface.

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Shanghai





It’s hard to believe that this is only our third year overseas and yet we are already moving on to our second international teaching positions.  With our 2nd summer vacation as international teachers over, we found ourselves yet again on an airplane zooming towards new beginnings. Our trepidation and nerves were less than they were two years ago but our excitement was at the same level.  “China!  We’re moving to China!”  During our stressful job hunt last January, if you had asked me where our next location might be, I don’t think China would have made it to the top of our list.  Yet again, when we were forced to make our decision after only two and a half days of intense interviews and stiff meet and greets, we went with the school that felt the best to us, not necessarily the school in the most alluring location.
We were in Shanghai 2 years ago for a technology conference and were not impressed with the city at all.  To be fair, we only saw a little of it during the evenings after our brains were fried with all we were learning.  But, the skies were filled with a heavy brownish-gray smog, the streets seemed crowded and the parts of the city we saw were heavy with concrete and absent of anything green. 
So why did we decided to say yes to jobs here?  Well, Shanghai American School has one of the best reputations among all of the international schools in Asia!  We couldn’t believe we got offered the jobs.  As we signed our names to our shiny new contracts we knew through the international teacher grape vines that we would probably be working our little heinies off just to fit in but the overall package they were offering along with what it will hopefully do for our resumes couldn’t have been ignored just because of brownish, grayish smog filled skies and a lack of plants right?  Right?  Well, we were certainly crossing our fingers as we hurtled towards our future in Shanghai. 
Most of the time a sixteen hour flight is not such a great way to spend time but when it seems that time is on fast-forward it can create  a much needed chance to reflect.  Two years ago during the tech conference, we couldn’t help but notice that Shanghai was going to be hosting the 2010 World Expo.  There were proud posters and banners all over the city.  Then when we returned to Seoul, we noticed the Discovery Channel was playing shows on China like they personally had stake in the country.  I’m sure it also had to do with the Olympics being in Beijing, but still!  There was program after program about what China is doing to clean up its skies, what it’s doing to make Shanghai a “Green City”  and how they are closing up factories and putting in parks to improve the overall health of its cities.  Loren and I watched these shows from our little t.v. in Korea and were curious about all the changes supposedly taking place in our largest neighboring country but figured we had already done our China trip so we’d have to continue to learn about it through the t.v.   With the ink still drying on the papers that would dictate at least the next two years of our lives, Loren and I continued to wonder about our choice to make Shanghai, gray, concrete-cold, Shanghai our home.

Home Coming?
  Unlike when we landed in Korea for the first time, on a runway that only an experience pilot with tons of high tech gadgets could land on for all the fog, our pilot easily navigated us onto the tarmac amidst clear blue skies on a swelteringly hot and humid summer day.  We were pleasantly surprised by the beautiful blue skies with fluffy white clouds that greeted us and accompanied us on our drive to our new home.  Maybe those shows on the Discovery channel were not all bought and paid for propaganda?  We were elated to see our fluffy white companions hanging out above us even though we were not convinced they’d stay.
 After our long flight what we were most anxious to discover was what our new place would look like. Would it be a small but comfortable apartment like Korea?  Would it be nice but maybe not what we had been hoping for?  After making it smoothly through customs we only had a 45 minute bus trip until we would find out.  A veteran teacher from SAS was at the airport to greet us and help us to our new apartment.  We asked her all sorts of questions about the city and about her summer break, trying to will our minds to stay alert and our tongues to continue the light conversation even through our excited but jet-lagged, exhaustion.
At last our bus turned onto a tree lined drive and looped around a small round about then came to a complete stop in front of a stately brick building.
 
Ann, our ambassador, used her key to let us in the ground floor of our building.  Loren and I noticed we were rolling our suitcases over marble floors and past tastefully neutral decor our our way to a small, glass elevator. Hmm, could be a good start, we thought.  Up a hand full of floors and at last the door to our new home stood before us.  Ann opened the tall wooden door and Loren and I entered with wide eyed excitement to find a marble entry way leading to beautiful hardwood floors, and a huge living room and dining room.  After only seeing that much we knew we had arrived.  Then we got a short tour through the rest of the apartment.  We have a huge kitchen, fully equipped, 2 guest bedrooms, 2 and 1/2 bathrooms, a large master bedroom, a walk-in closet! a vanity area and a master bathroom that honeymoon suites would surely be willing to advertise.  And my favorite feature, or one of the many, we have 2 balconies!  Oh yea!  We have arrived indeed.  Our place feels more like a one story house than it does an apartment. 

Living Room
Dining Room with view of balcony #1

Master Bathroom

View from Balcony #1

With our first surprises and discoveries behind us, we are now in the slow and sometimes uncomfortable process of getting settled.  Our apartment doesn’t feel as huge as it did when we first arrived but it echos, proving that it is still a huge, mostly empty space.  We are still waiting to get our shipment out of Korea that is full of our favorite paintings, wood carvings, and photos that we’ve collected over our 2 years there.  We keep thinking that we’ll feel more at home with our things here to surround us with familiarity.  In the mean time, to help us add some character to our stark white, empty apartment, we are even considering painting our place.  Possibly some blue will do?  Who knows?  At this point we are taking it slow and getting to know our home and neighborhood one room or step at at time. 

Jinqaio
The "A" and the "I" buildings, Jinqiao landmarks

Our neighborhood is becoming less and less a mystery to us.  We live in a huge expat area called Jinqiao.  There is a Starbucks within 5 minutes walking distance from us as well as a couple strips of fancy restaurants geared towards hungry, and wealthy expats.  I have to say that with all the great food options, the first few months it was really hard not to go out to eat every night or even better yet, get the food delivered to our door.  We can get almost everything delivered here.  In fact for Loren’s birthday we hosted a robot themed party and realized we didn’t know where to buy ice so we just called Sherpas, our favorite delivery service and they delivered some right to our door!  Incredible, I know. 
Having brunch at one our our favorite local restaurants, The Blue Frog

Grocery shopping in Jinqiao can either be a real cultural experience if we go to the “wet market” where local farmers and fishermen who troll the many waterways for crawdads and fish sell their wares or we can shop at the local Carrefore, a large western style grocery store or if we are looking for something harder to find like Kraft Mac and Cheese, we can just go to Pines, a grocery store that caters to the expat community.  We’ve found that no matter where we go shopping, the produce is very cheap and most other goods that are locally produced are also really cheap.  For example, today we went to Pines, which is considered a more expensive store and bought 3 large fresh ripe tomatoes for only 5RMB.  That’s about $.70.  Pines also has a small organic section where we can buy in season produce very reasonably priced.  Oh, and they also sell all sorts of fresh herbs as well as dried herbs. 
Fresh herbs from Pines

Hormone and antibiotic free eggs all the way from Korea! 

Looks like the Spirit of Halloween visits Shanghai after all!

Just LOOK at the spices!


I tried so hard to find spices in Korea that I had them shipped here.  They are sitting in a warehouse right now waiting to come live in my kitchen here not knowing that I’ve already stocked up on the essentials.  Poor Korean spices!  I’m not hurting for anything here so far.  All of our food cravings have been satisfied and then some.

Being in the expat neighborhood certainly has its perks, but it also manages to make us feel pretty disconnected from our host country.  Many times we have to remind ourselves that we do live in China, not little America, or little Europe.  We recently bought bikes and enjoy cruising around and out into the Chinese neighborhoods.  It can feel like Jinqiao is huge, but only a few blocks away there is typical Chinese housing, stores and less and less expats wandering around.  We plan to keep exploring these areas.  
Taken on a weekend bike ride in our neighborhood.



With all we’ve discovered here in Shanghai to this point, I think I can speak for us both when I say we were very wrong to judge this city so quickly two years ago.  Even though we haven’t had our little fluffy white companions greet us every day, we’ve seen them floating in a baby blue sky on many occasions and have experienced less of the brownish-gray skies than we had expected.  Our neighborhood is full of trees and green spaces and the city has surprised us with its many parks and old tree lined streets.  Shanghai is a city that has a very long history of inviting in foreigners and accommodates us well.  If we aren’t careful, we could live our lives here almost never speaking Mandarin or venturing out into the unknown.  But, we’re already venturing out further and further from our fancy apartment, and out of our safe expat neighborhood to see what’s around the next corner and each time we do, we are surprised and impressed by what we find.  Shanghai is a huge city full of history and traditions that sits on the coast of an even larger country that is alive in the minds of world at this moment.  We can’t wait to see more of our host country and of our new home city.  In fact, I think we may have just stumbled upon a place that beats in rhythm with our nomadic hearts; at least for the foreseeable future that is.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Lantern Festival

May 14th, 2010  Lantern Festival
Seoul, Korea


Before we left Korea, we were trying to pack as many cultural events in as possible.  One of those events was visiting the Lantern Festival.  Throughout the day there are many events happening, such as lantern making, pottery classes among other but the culminating event is the parade of softly glowing lanterns being carried by men and women, young and old through the streets of down town Seoul.  It was a beautiful site.  
I hope you enjoy the photos.
 
 During cultural festivals, often times people will wear some of their Hanbok clothing.  I always liked it.  It looks so comfortable. 

Police men were busy keeping the crowds off the street in preparation for the parades. 

Ladies in their Hanbok.

The crowds lining the street were intense.  The people who were sitting on top of the subway glass overhang were eventually kicked off.  I was tempted to crawl up there to get some better pics too but didn't want to be the straw that broke the glass panels and have all 20 of us go tumbling to our deaths.  



P.S. I'm slowly working my way towards a Shanghai post.  Stay tuned...